The adoption process can sometimes be confusing and overwhelming, but when you have guidance from a knowledgeable adoption attorney, the situation will be easier and less stressful. There are several things that adoption attorneys would like you to know as you go through the adoption process.
Have Patience
You may have heard stories of people waiting years to adopt a child. While it may not take that long for you, it is important to know that there are many challenges along the way. Every situation is different, and there could be some emotional days ahead. Do not worry about the legal details. Your attorney will always take care of the issues that arise and will work on your behalf to move the process along as quickly as possible. There are various steps along the way, and they may be the responsibility of various adoption agencies. Things can seem to move slowly at times, but don’t worry. Everything will get done, and you will soon be welcoming your new child into the family.
Understand the Process
It is helpful to have a general understanding of the overall adoption process. There are many steps involved, and you can relax your stress when you know what is happening. However, keep in mind that you do not have to know the specifics of the legal proceedings. Your attorney knows all the ins and outs and will always be there to handle everything that arises. With an overview of the process, you will know what to expect. For example, you will need to undergo a home study. You will want to ensure that your home is ready for the visit. Your attorney will inform you of all the steps and everything you need to know ahead of time. It can be difficult when you do not know what is happening, so don’t be afraid to discuss your concerns with your attorney.
Maintain Communication
It is essential to stay in communication with the agency and your attorney. When they need information, be sure to provide it in a timely manner. You do not want to hold up the process. Make sure you review documents before you sign them, so you have complete knowledge.
If anything changes with your situation, make sure that you let everyone know. If you have any embarrassing or questionable things in your past, let your lawyer know ahead of time so there are no surprises. With this knowledge, your attorney can more easily address issues before they arise. Most importantly, stay in contact with your lawyer. If you have questions throughout the process, be sure to ask. Your adoption attorney has been through the process many times before and understands how everything works.
If you are ready to adopt, remember you don’t need to go it alone. This is a life-changing process, so you need to be sure that you follow the process. To learn more about adoption and to request a consultation, contact us at Moen Sheehan Meyer, Ltd. at (608) 784-8310 or online.